Make a connection by being a kid and thinking as a kid.
Find moments every day to have a meaningful connection with your child at his or her level. The more moments, the better! This means leaving adult distractions like the cell phone on the table, ignoring the ring or the text alert, and getting down to their level—doing something with them that they deem to be […]
Be positive when giving correction.
If you need to correct your child, never do so in anger. Never put them down. Don’t stomp on their little self-esteem. Remember, they are learning behavior just like you are! An excellent way to discipline or make corrections is to sit right next to your child and put your arm around him or her […]
Make-believe is fun. Join in the adventure!
Embrace your child’s make-believe friends. After all, you also had your make-believe friends when you were his or her age. Join in the adventures your child creates. It is okay to be a kid and “play along” with their world. Don’t just tell them to go play—engage in the game with them. Join them in […]
Use bedtime to probe into your child’s mind.
When it is time for bed, try lying down next to your child, holding their hand, and asking them about their day. Listen to what is on their mind. Probe to bring out the good things they have experienced. Listen for what is bothering them or causing them fear. Give your child at least five […]
Pause, hold a hand—and pray.
After the lights are out and the conversation is over, don’t leave your child for a few minutes. Keep holding your child’s hand. Allow them to fall asleep knowing you are there as their parent and protector. You really don’t have something more important to do. As a parent, your first priority is to ensure […]